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Traditional Wedding

 

 

In Confucian thought, marriage is of grave significance, both to families and to society. Traditionally, incest has been defined as marriage between people with the same surname. From the perspective of a Confucian family, marriage brings together families of different surnames and so continues the family line of the paternal clan. This is generally why having a boy is considered better than giving birth to a girl. Therefore, the benefits and demerits of any marriage are important to the entire family, not just the individual couples. Socially, the married couple is thought to be the basic unit of society. In Chinese history there have been many cases when marriages have affected the country’s political stability and international relations. From the Han Dynasty the rulers of certain powerful foreign tribes, such as the Mongolians, the Manchus, the Huns, and the Turks, demanded women from the Imperial family. Many periods of Chinese history were dominated by the families of the wife or mother of the ruling Emperor. Thus marriage is closely related to politics.    

 
Wedding Reception

In Chinese society, the wedding reception is known as xi-jiu, literally joyful wine, and is far more important than the wedding itself, which tends to be a brief civil ceremony. The timing and the characteristics of the reception vary greatly from one locale to another. They are typically extremely elaborate and expensive, often costing several years’ salary of the groom’s family. However, because cash in the form of red envelopes and jewelry (particularly gold) are given as wedding presents, and because the wedding hosts keep very careful track of the cost of the gifts (jewelry is given with a receipt, which indicates the actual cost of the gift), the cost of the reception is effectively split among the wedding guests. Wedding receptions also build local community solidarity. As each couple wed, their wedding reception is in effect financed with gifts from the other members of the community, with the expectation that the new couple and their family will give gifts in future wedding receptions within the village.

 
Chinese Wedding Cakes

 

Chinese wedding cakes are called “Happiness Cakes”, also known as “Dragon & Phoenix Cakes”. There are baked cakes with dragon and phoenix imprints on the surface. Some styles have fillings made of lotus seed paste, red bean paste or green bean paste.

The wedding cakes are usually presented to the bride’s family by the groom’s family, as part of the proposal gift. The bride’s family will then present some of the cakes to worship their ancestors and send the rest of the cakes to friends and relatives, along with wedding invitations. The quantity of cakes to be sent depends on seniority of the guests or their relationship with the family. Nowadays, the wedding cakes are usually served to the guests at the wedding, instead of the western style wedding cakes.

 
Red Head Covers

Red Head Covers At a traditional Chinese wedding, the bride is often seen with a red veil on her head. It covers the bride’s face. Chinese people call the veil, made of a laced silk square, "red head cover".
The practice dates back to the Qi Period (479-502) of the Northern and Southern Dynasties. The head cover was used by women farmers to protect their heads against cold wind or hot sunshine, while working in the fields. It could be a cloth of any color and was big enough to cover the head top. For its practical use and ornamental function, the head cover became a widespread custom. By the beginning of Tang Dynasty (618-907), the cover had become a long veil down to the shoulder. And it was no longer a privilege of working women. Later, Emperor Li Jilong made a decision. He demanded that all maids-in-waiting in the palace add a piece of gauze to the head covers, to cover their faces. It soon became a fashion among the commoners. But the commoners changed the cover’s function. In those days, women’s faces were thought of as a lure to men. A husband did not want his beautiful wife to be an attraction to other men. He wanted her to behave bashfully and look too shy to see men. A veil was just what was needed; And the wife readily accepted the veil, as a way to show her loyalty to her husband. Gradually the veils became popular among both married and unmarried women, who were eager to demonstrate their virtues. Veils are not unique in China. Even today veils can still be seen in some other places in the world. The custom lasted about a thousand years. Since the Jin Dynasty (936-946), a veil became a must for brides at the wedding. The color of the bride’s veil is always red, as it symbolizes happiness.

 

 
Double Happiness

 

Each half of the symbol is the standard character for happiness, written “hsi” or “xi”, and pronounced something like “She” in Mandarin (high level tone, the third tone). Therefore, two “hsi” graphs together represent the wish for the two young newlyweds to have happiness together. The double happiness graph (pronounced “shuang-hsi” in Mandarin) is a special Chinese character used for marital happiness. It’s not used in regular Chinese writing or printing.

Double Happiness

 
Chinese Bridal Sedan Chair

Chinese Bridal Sedan ChairThe chair-like sedan, enclosed with color silk was one of the main vehicles in ancient China. Of course, it was mainly used by the rich. The poor had to rely on donkeys, or their own feet to travel. So it was a status symbol to have a sedan rather than a noisy donkey. On special occasions, such as a wedding ceremony, a sedan chair was used to take the bride to the groom’s house, even for the poor. The bridal sedan chair can be divided into two categories, i.e. “big” sedan and “small” sedan. The “big” sedan is carried by four people, with a number of following deacons in charge of blowing Suona (a kind of wind instrument), beating gongs, holding lanterns, and carrying boxes of presents and so on. It’s the kind of sedan usually rented by rich people. The small sedan, on the other hand, is carried by only two people – it’s the kind mainly chosen by the poor or normal families. 
 

 
Chinese wedding Dress and the Groom’s Outfit

 

The color red is considered good luck, a strong color that can keep away evil spirits. The traditional Chinese wedding dress in northern China is usually a one-piece frock called Qi Pao, embroidered with elaborate gold and silver designs. Brides from southern China usually wear a two-piece dress called Qun Gua., Kwa or Cheongsam, also elaborately adorned with golden phoenix and dragon.
In the old days, a piece of red veil was part of the bride’s costume to cover her face during the wedding ceremony. Newlyweds would see each other’s face for the first time on their wedding night.
Dragon & Phoenix Bridal Dress is a tradition, by which the bride and groom wear Cheongsam with a red dragon & phoenix design, on their wedding day. The Dragon & Phoenix design symbolizes the balance of male and female power.
The groom’s costume is a block silk coat, worn over an embroidered dragon robe of dark blue. The headgear is a black hat with red tassel. Nowadays, most groom’s wear has been simplified to a set of traditional outfits, without the overcoat.

Chinese wedding Dress and the Groom’s Outfit

 

 
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